Nowadays, many teens mistakenly believe sex is the ultimate answer to feeling cool, loved, accepted and grown up. Moreover, this is a wrong perception. Therefore, i would like to share an article that i read in a magazine about "How to SAY NO to Sex".
1. Make a firm decision ahead of time... before you wind up in a pressure-filled moment. Decide well in advance that you aren't going to have sex until you are married. Otherwise, you might get caught up in the moment.
2. Avoid boredom. Make sure you plan what you are going to do when you are out on dates so you aren't left asking the question, "What should we do now?"
3. Go out in groups. When you are around other people, you're less likely to do things you'll regret later.
4. Put real love first. When someone starts a sentence by saying, "if you love me, you'll..." then finish it by saying, "you'll respect me and not ask me to do something that's wrong for me."
5. Get support. It's easier to make big decisions when someone is there to support your convictions. The best supporter you have is God, and He will always give you the strength and wisdom to say, "NO!".
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Good Article!
Less and less virgins are available~~
yaya.. is true... nowadays many teenagers take action based on their feel and mood or even influence by partner. therefore, it's vital to wait for the right person...
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